Gillette, you speak as if we started this war. gay people just wanted the right and chance to become legal kin and families, and the religious right and conservatives freaked and kicked into overdrive trying to stop it. why? Whatever happened to live and let live? I couldn?t give a squat about churches and what they were doing until the religious started trying to put restrictions and legislating their versions of morality on the rest of us.the blowback, scrutiny, and criticisms of your churches are your own fault.behaving as if you are the victims here isn?t going to get sympathy from anyone.